Ok... I have a question for all you out there, male/female, doesn't matter if you are married or single... And everyone really is different about what they like and that's cool... so, here is the question of the evening...
What is it about a person that attracts you to a person when you first see or meet them?
5 comments:
there eyes and teeth
Smile first. Are they looking friendly? Is this someone you'd like to talk to.
Size next. I'm fat, and I am attracted by skinny people. How do they do that? Stay thin in an indulgent world?
Eyes too. Does that person see me? Would that person like to talk to ME?
But I remember that the first glance is not enough. Interesting people come in all shapes and sizes, and even that person with a scowl and a frown may be an interesting person to know.
Also..... I see by your counter that I am the 977th person to read your journal. How great. I would like to be the one thousandth...dunno why...just like round numbers I guess.
Jackie,
I read the results of some study where scientists learned what attracts men at first glance. I think it went: hair, legs, face, and then all the other goodies.
I think I fall in with all the other cavemen, but on second glance or closer in, it's definitely the smile, and, closely related, the eyes, laugh and sense of humor. Those are all one bundle. And, I noticed, all things that can be worked on and improved. They are confidence things.
There you go -- too much information for you.
Abe
if "meeting" ... are they really paying attention and do they have a sense of humor that matches mine, if "seeing" ... well then whatever I am looking for <grin>
Patrick
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